How To Seduce A Woman Without Even Talking To Her
Last night I slept with a girl who didn’t speak any English.
We were literally incapable of talking to each other.
Yet, my nonverbal communication made her feel so much desire that she didn’t care whether I spoke her language.
Of course, seduction is partly verbal. The language you use can make the difference between getting friend-zoned and living out your sexual fantasies.
However, attraction and sex are more about the energy you project than the words you say.
With the right ‘vibe,’ women will find you irresistible.
In this article, I’m going to teach you how to seduce a woman without needing to be clever or interesting – you’ll learn how to communicate powerful sexual energy nonverbally.
How To Seduce A Women Without Talking
Part 1: Nonverbal Seduction
Yesterday I was with my coaching client on the Vegas strip, and I told him to approach two cute girls I saw.
The girls were immediately receptive. I joined my client, and the energy between the girl and me was great.
But they didn’t speak English at all.
It seemed like the interaction was doomed to go nowhere.
My client used Google translate to ask what the girls were up to.
They said they were free, and he invited them to come to a bar with us (leading is one of the most important lessons I hammer on when I’m coaching).
They agreed, we walked to the bar while doing our best to talk with the girls. As we sat down at the table, I looked at my girl in a way that made her feel desired.
I focused on how attractive she was; I wasn’t thinking about what I should say to be interesting; I was purely engaged with my feelings for her.
More than anything, that is the key to seduction.
Sex is all about desire, and when you feel genuine desire that feeling transfers like all others: anger, laughter, etc.
We ended up communicating with each other using Google Translate, but this limited me because I couldn’t be funny or especially interesting. However, the girl started touching my arm repeatedly; she held intense eye contact, and the tension was palpable.
But it wasn’t just the sexual energy that made this seduction possible. It was also that I was relaxed.
How To Seduce A Women Without Talking
Part 2: Relaxation
One of the most common mistakes men make when meeting women is trying too hard to impress.
Ironically, the more effort you put into making a girl like you, the more she feels something is ‘off’ about you. She thinks, “Why does he need to prove himself? Why can’t he relax?”
When there was a silence between the girl and me, I let it hang for a while. I didn’t feel any need to chase her; I let her come to me.
When I’m on a date, the girl usually does 60-70% of the talking. Instead of trying to make the girl think I’m interesting, I focus on making her feel that she’s interesting.
When you combine this relaxed energy with strong sexual intent (that you project through your eyes), the tension will naturally build over time. It will be very common for girls to hook up with you within minutes of meeting them if you do this right.
With the girl last night, I invited her and her friend to play drinking games in my client’s hotel room. We played Would You Rather, but within minutes I was making out with my girl.
My client followed suit and made out with his girl on the bed. I took mine to the hallway so my client could have some privacy, and later, he and his girl left the room. Afterward, I came back in with my girl, and we hooked up.
Learning how to seduce women can feel impossibly frustrating and complicated. But once you know how to project relaxation and sexual energy, you won’t have to be as witty as Conan O’Brien to get a girl. You won’t even have to speak her language.
Check out my YouTube channel to watch hidden camera footage of me picking up girls:
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