How To Have Sex With 1000 Women This Year (without ever getting rejected)
Step 1: Save up $500,000
Step 2: Go to Amsterdam
Step 3: Hit the red light district three times per day
Okay, I’m joking. However, there is a profound point here: the fact that you clicked on this article has everything to do with why you’re struggling to attract women.
We live in a society that addicts us to extremes.
If I wrote an article titled, “How to slowly improve your dating success by repeatedly getting out of your comfort zone,” you wouldn’t have clicked it.
There are online courses that promise you’ll be able to get any girl you want without ever getting rejected or even having to approach a woman. And some of those courses earned millions of dollars.
That’s what resonates the strongest.
Until you learn to give up the instant-success mentality, you won’t get any success.
The Strategy That Will Actually Get You Limitless Dates
Learning to attract women starts with small steps in the right direction that accumulate over time.
If you’re like most men, you don’t regularly approach women you’re attracted to.
And if you’re honest with yourself: the thought of doing so probably provokes anxiety.
Until you go through a rigorous process of facing that anxiety head-on, you’re dating life will not change.
That process doesn’t happen overnight. It involves going out somewhere women congregate – a mall, park, your college campus, bars, etc., and then trying to say hello to some girls.
Chances are, you’ll struggle at first.
You’ll probably feel stressed because of the pressure. You might want to go home. You might think this is dumb and decide that the girl you like at work is really the best option (even though you’re deep in the friend zone).
Your ability to experience that resistance and continue regardless is the difference between success and failure (not just in pickup but in any self-improvement endeavor).
On your first attempts, you might not even be able to say hi to a girl. Personally, it took me two weeks of going out every day before I was able to do a single approach.
It may be easier for you; it may be harder. But either way, trust the process – be willing to embrace the discomfort that comes with the beginning stages of learning this skill.
Then, when you persist, you’ll start to make breakthroughs that change your perspective and show you what’s possible.
One day you’ll approach a girl who responds very positively. On another day, you’ll get a phone number that leads to a date. You’ll find that you’re starting to actually enjoy going out and meeting people even though it was stressful at first.
The momentum will shift, and you’ll look forward to going out to meet women.
You’ll get there because you were willing to embrace the initial pain period of going out, barely getting any results, and feeling like the whole idea of approaching women is stupid.
And because you’re one of the few men who are willing to approach a girl in real life, you’ll find your dating life is starting to look a lot like that of a rockstar.
This transformation starts with letting go of the idea that you need instant results and that change should be easy.
Eventually, approaching women will become easy for you.
But getting there requires you to make a payment upfront – you have to put yourself into stressful situations repeatedly (for weeks if not several months) until you experience a deep internal change.
Will you reach a point where you’re able to have sex with a thousand women in one year?
Possibly, although I doubt you’d actually want to.
However, you will get to a point where you know you can meet an attractive woman whenever you want and get a date with her.
It will take real effort to get there, but it’s worth it.
Most men have such few options in dating that they experience a constant state of quiet desperation.
We want women in our lives, but we rely on luck. Once or twice a year, we meet a girl who seems to like us, and if we play our cards right, we end up dating her.
And chances are, we don’t like her all that much; she was just our only option.
Having no control over your dating life is stressful on a much deeper level than the stress you’ll experience going out and approaching women. Worse, the stress builds each year as the situation slowly worsens.
In contrast, the stress of approaching is intense at first, but it eventually turns into genuine excitement.
It’s your choice; you can keep looking for a quick fix solution (some trick that will allow you to bypass the process of genuine change).
Or you can give up the comfort that comes with holding onto that idea and embrace the temporary stress of the pain period to develop a skill that will change your life forever.
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